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You Can Rest or You Can Burnout: How to Stop Running Your Life Like a Crisis
We’ve been taught to call it resilience, but it’s really burnout with good PR.
You keep holding it all together, thinking the calm will come later. But what if “later” has already turned into your lifestyle?
In this week’s post, I’m unpacking the real cost of burnout (financial, emotional, and personal) and what it looks like to make rest your most practical financial strategy in 2025's burnout economy.
Oct 2012 min read


You Didn’t Fail, You Were Handed Bad Financial Options
We’ve been told our money struggles are about “bad choices”:
Didn’t save enough? Your fault
Drowning in loans? Should’ve known better
But what if the truth is simpler and harsher? What if the options were rigged from the start?
In this week’s post, I’m breaking down how bad financial options (from student loans to credit traps) shaped the paths we were given, why shame keeps us stuck, and the strategies that actually expand your choices in 2025’s economy.
Oct 614 min read


This Isn’t Living: How to Survive Survival Mode Without Losing Yourself
Survival mode has quietly become the default in 2025.
Prices keep climbing, wages stay flat, and too many of us are stretched to the breaking point.
But survival isn’t supposed to be permanent.
In this post, I break down the hidden costs of survival mode and the systems that create breathing room, protect your peace, and help you move beyond just “making it.”
Sep 2213 min read


Layoffs, Uncertainty, and the New Reality: Why One Paycheck Is No Longer Enough for Black Women
The September 2025 jobs report makes it clear: one paycheck isn’t enough, especially for Black women. Since spring, over 300,000 have been forced out of the workforce, layoffs keep rising, and safety nets are thin. The old belief that loyalty equals stability has collapsed. In this post, I unpack why relying on a single job is dangerous, what real resilience looks like, and how to build income, savings, and skills that hold when the system doesn’t.
Sep 815 min read


Pay Down Debt Without Putting Life on Hold (In a World That Wants You to Stay Broke)
You’re not “bad” with money. You’re navigating a system that profits off your exhaustion.
This post isn’t another budget tip. It’s a financial reset. One that shows you how to build a life while paying down debt, without guilt, burnout, or waiting to feel like you’ve earned rest.
Because paying off debt shouldn’t feel like punishment and progress shouldn’t mean putting your life on pause.
Aug 315 min read


Everything’s On Fire and Was Due Yesterday: How the False Sense of Urgency Is Draining You and Your Wallet
If everything feels like an emergency, you’re not alone. That false sense of urgency isn’t just exhausting. It’s quietly draining your money, your energy, and your long-term vision. In this post, we break down what urgency culture is really costing you and how to shift from reaction to strategy without falling behind.
Jul 2011 min read


Financial Anxiety. Money Stress. Real Talk: Smart Moves for a Volatile Economy
Most financial advice was never written with your life in mind. This post unpacks the real reasons women feel behind with money (hint: it’s not because we’re bad with it). From outdated systems to financial shame spirals, we're breaking down the truth behind financial anxiety and money stress and showing you how to rewrite the rules with strategy, clarity, and self-trust.
Jul 617 min read


It’s Not Self-Sabotage, It’s Survival: Why You’re Not ‘Bad With Money’
If you’ve ever felt “bad with money,” know this: self-sabotage is often survival in disguise. Those financial habits you beat yourself up over aren’t failures. They’re your nervous system’s way of getting you through. So, when money feels heavy, it’s not about budgeting harder. It’s about understanding what’s really underneath and giving yourself the compassion and clarity you deserve.
Jun 511 min read


What Are You Really Working For? How to Reconnect With Your ‘Why’ When Money Feels Heavy
Money isn’t just about getting ahead. It’s about feeling aligned, supported, and clear while you build the life you want. If your goals feel heavy, disconnected, or out of step with your current season, this is your invitation to pause, reflect, and reconnect with your financial why. You’ll also get The Financial Reset Journal Page - a free guide to help you to turn clarity into calm, grounded financial actions you can actually stick with.
May 239 min read


Still Don’t Have an Emergency Fund? Here’s Why That’s a Risk You Can’t Afford
There’s a lot of talk about building wealth right now, but here’s something nobody’s glamorizing enough: building protection. In this economy where layoffs, price surges, and curveballs hit without warning, your emergency fund isn’t a luxury. It’s your peace of mind. Your backup plan. Your quiet power move.
And if you’re thinking, “I don’t even know where to start”, I’ve got you covered. A free Emergency Fund Starter Kit is dropping this Sunday. Simple. Realistic. No fluff.
May 88 min read


Still Playing Catch-Up with Investing? Here’s How You Can Take the Lead
Catch-up investing - aka the investing gap - affects everything from retirement accounts, to net worth, and the ability to take financial risks with confidence. And with rising living costs, longer lifespans, and an unpredictable economy, it’s a gap women can no longer afford to ignore.
Apr 2417 min read


When Life Throws You a Curveball: How to Bounce Back Financially After Life's Unexpected Shifts
Financial curveballs give you a chance to pause, reassess, and rebuild in a way that aligns with the life you want - not what you had.
Apr 1015 min read


Recession, Inflation, and Your Wallet: How to Navigate Economic Uncertainty
Recessions, inflation, and market fluctuations may be outside your control, but how you respond to them is entirely in your hands.
Mar 2715 min read


The Quiet Cost of People-Pleasing: Is Saying ‘Yes’ is Draining Your Wallet?
Women fall into a cycle of people-pleasing not because they lack financial discipline, but because saying no is harder than swiping a card.
Mar 1610 min read


Are You Undercharging Yourself? How to Ask for (and Get) the Money You Deserve
Women are conditioned to play small when it comes to money, but charging your worth isn't about greed. It's about financial security.
Mar 913 min read


Soft Life, Smart Money: How to Enjoy Luxury Without Going Broke
Soft living is about creating a life of comfort, freedom, and financial security. It’s about indulging without sacrificing your future.
Mar 212 min read


Financial Red Flags: Signs You Can’t Afford to Ignore
Financial red flags shake your confidence & security. Too often, women brush them off and "later" turns into years of financial instability.
Feb 2313 min read


Stressed About Overspending? Here’s How to Break the Cycle
Overspending isn’t just about money. It’s about emotions: stress, boredom, comparison, or that little voice whispering, I deserve this.
Feb 1710 min read


Mastering the 50/30/20 Rule: A Budget That Actually Fits Your Life(style)
The 50/30/20 method isn’t about restriction. It's about finding balance between your financial future and living life to the fullest.
Feb 913 min read


The Power of Micro-Saving: Small Money Moves That Add Up Big
Micro-saving is the secret weapon that proves small, intentional changes in how you handle your money can lead to big rewards.
Feb 314 min read
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